Would You Like A Compliment?

The feeling you get when someone compliments you out of the blue… it’s amazing. A compliment sends a shiver of warmth all over you. For those of us with low self-confidence, it can be awkward and hard to accept, but it is still appreciated.

I was thinking about how cliche our typical compliments start to get. You have: “Your hair looks nice today”, “cute shoes”, “I like your shirt”, ect. You could say these compliments to anyone, but the best feeling compliments are more specific to you. For example, “The hamloaf you made for dinner was delicious” or “Your gallery wall is so well put together.” These would hit so much closer to home and therefore have a deeper impact.

When thinking of a friend I wanted to compliment, I started to think about chai tea. This friend has such a bright personality. They are a joy to be around. There is such a depth to their caring soul. It just felt right to compare them to a cup of chai.

This got me thinking about reframing compliments. What if we handed out metaphors as compliments? Maybe the compliments would hold greater impact and linger longer. Maybe they would serve to make your corner of the world a brighter place. So, I have crafted ten such metaphors for you and I to start with. Sending these with love.

“You remind me of …”

A Warm Cup of Chai Tea

It is enjoyable to sit in your presence. You have such a wonderful depth of character and such a cozy personality.

When My Favorite Song Plays on the Radio

Every time we reconnect, I am reminded of how great a friend you are. You remind me of when days were better.

A Fuzzy Christmas Blanket

I only get to see you on holidays, but when I do we go together like two peas in a pod. You have a warm and comforting personality.

Shopping at My Favorite Thrift Store

I am never sure what story you will have to tell me today, but it is sure to be fantastic.

A Chilly Fall Evening Around a Campfire

You have a refreshing presence and fiery personality. You light up the room and attract friends like moths to a flame.

A 1970s Rocking Chair

You give off grandma vibes. It is comfortable to be around you. Wherever you are instantly feels cozier.

My Favorite Childhood Stuffed Animal

You have been around me for quite a while, and you hold all my favorite memories.

My Trusty Journal

I know I can tell you anything and it will remain under lock and key. Telling you about my life always makes me feel less alone.

Reading a Book When It Rains

You know how to take an unfortunate change of plans and turn it around for good. You find the silver lining in any circumstance. Being around you makes any day cozier.

A Hug

I know you will embrace me with all my quirks included. You are so accepting and reassuring. Being around you feels safe and secure.